this is something i been struggling with for the last year within the cosplay community. people have been nasty towards me for no reason (its because they think im weird or don't think im cool or attractive), and i have to tell myself that's THEIR problem and not MINE.
Jacque, your essay "On Being Queer, Weird, and Unlikeable" offers a deeply personal and insightful perspective on navigating identity and societal perceptions. Your candid reflections resonate with those who have faced similar challenges, fostering a sense of understanding and community. Thank you for sharing your experiences with such authenticity.
My view: All of the things you described that make your life difficult are also your superpower. You are one of my gurus. The TJs of the world have their own superpower, just as you describe. But they will never be gurus. The world is a better place for having you in it, just the way you are.
this is something i been struggling with for the last year within the cosplay community. people have been nasty towards me for no reason (its because they think im weird or don't think im cool or attractive), and i have to tell myself that's THEIR problem and not MINE.
Jacque, your essay "On Being Queer, Weird, and Unlikeable" offers a deeply personal and insightful perspective on navigating identity and societal perceptions. Your candid reflections resonate with those who have faced similar challenges, fostering a sense of understanding and community. Thank you for sharing your experiences with such authenticity.
My view: All of the things you described that make your life difficult are also your superpower. You are one of my gurus. The TJs of the world have their own superpower, just as you describe. But they will never be gurus. The world is a better place for having you in it, just the way you are.