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Joshstaightup's avatar

Not too much i hate, but, #1 for sure still is dishonesty, especially pointless dishonesty. #2 poor communication, if somethings a miss, say so, we are adults, disagreements and finding resolutions are part of adults. #3 missing breakfast

Things I love are too numerous #1 brown/black women absolutely #2 brown/black women lol I'm joking but im serious tho #3 breakfast, the most important meal, next to brown/black women, im sorry #4 refrigerated water #5 music, music is life #6 growing old with my sisters but seeing that we all still hold true to our initial characters from youth.

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Christine Olukere's avatar

I agree with the pointless dishonesty part. It's not following through with lies that is more damaging sometimes than the lie itself.

What's your favorite breakfast food? I love a good omelette, don't mind avocado toast with a fried egg, and love pancakes.

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Joshstaightup's avatar

any type omelette as well, oatmeal with chopped up fruits, and French toast or waffles

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Stacey's avatar

Oof, there’s a bunch of things I hate:

1. People who call others “vibe killers” just because they don’t like to ignore how they feel and not wanting to hide behind a mask to protect others feelings (because honestly, that “vibe killer” has been doing it their WHOLE life and is tired of hiding hiding behind their mask. It only hurts them)

2. Fakeness/ Lack of Authenticity. I think we live in a society that has truly become afraid to be ourselves. And it makes me sad

3. Capitalism. I know it’s important… but it’s become too much. Overconsumption has taken over. 2025, I plan to show gratitude for the things that I have and not shop for anything new unless it’s necessary.

4. MOUTH SMACKERS!

5. When people breathe into phone obnoxiously loud

6. When people can only point out the negative things in everything everyone does, ripping people to shreds for no reason.

7. Hypocrisy. In myself too.

8. When people lack accountability. It irks my soul.

9. Bullies. *expletive* BULLIES! I cannot…

I can go on and on about things I hate. But I’ll share some things I love too:

1. Authenticity

2. Art, the creation of things, how a thing doesn’t exist in one moment, is able to exist in the next.

3. Anime, manga, and video games. These some of the things that keep me inspired to create

4. The fact that I started finally writing down one of the manga ideas that has been living in my head rent free and may start to execute on it.

5. Those who are following their dreams. Despite any fear or doubt. It’s so courageous and I’m trying to be like y’all when I grow up. 🤣🫶🏾💙

6. The loners, the misfits, the eccentrics of the world. We may not believe it, but we bring color to this cold colorless world.

7. The overwhelmed, overstimulated, and exhausted. I give my energy that I have to you all… because I am also overwhelmed, overstimulated, and exhausted. We’re all in it together.

8. The depressed, repressed, and anxious. I wish I had the reach to give all of my love to you all. Because you all deserve love and to do what makes you happy and pursue what makes you happy. Signed fellow depressed, repressed, anxious people.

9. The oversharers, the ramblers, the awkward. You all also have my heart, because despite it all, you have the courage to say what’s on your mind, and you help me keep going in life knowing I’m not alone. 💙

I say as I’m rambling 🤣 but all love to all of you 🫶🏾💙

Also Jacque, I LOVE your outfit in that photo!!

And I’m proud of you and thank you for showing me that there are fellow magical girl loving sadgurls in the world 💙

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Jacque Aye's avatar

Heavy on the bullies!! We are so aligned because I vibe with your whole list

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Jessica Phylicia Jackson's avatar

Definitely also hate loud chewing! Interrupted sleep, being bothered while eating, overly loud people, performative relationships, having to be positive ALL the time!! Releasing negative energy is good for us if done in a healthy way🤍

P.s. loved your recap! How cool!! (Also just realized I wasn’t following you on my personal account. Oops! *immediately follows*✨

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Jacque Aye's avatar

Having to be positive all the time is truly the worst!! What is your personal handle so I can follow

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Jessica Phylicia Jackson's avatar

It’s @jessicaphylicia :) I was wondering why I wasn’t seeing your content 😩 I haven’t been on my art account like I used to 😭

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Destiny's avatar

Ahh I haven’t had to ask myself this in a while lol But I feel like there’s a lot that comes to mind!

I hate:

1.) Feeling like I’m alone

2.) Confrontations - I am so bad with them

3.) Losing someone in all sense

4.) GREEN PEPPERS

5.) People who feel like I’m too much

6.) The feeling of running out of time

7.) Capitalism

8.) people who think I overreact when I talk about world issues

I love so much more I feel: my friends, coloring, videos games, anime, trickets and figures, being warm, manga, the color pink, the warm breeze near the ocean, dogs or animals in general!

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Sharifa's avatar

The #1 thing i hate is misunderstandings with the people I love! Communication means so much to me because i try to avoid this happening lol.

Also omg, you didn't jus visit Japan, you moved!! That's so huge, congratulations <3

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The Mediocre Black Woman's avatar

I’m sure there’s a few things but this is the one that’s top of mind at the moment. I hate when someone shares their experience like it’s the only experience in the world. “Oh that’s never happened to me”. Just because you haven’t been through it doesn’t mean that’s the only experience that exists. Which I still don’t get because there are so many people on this planet 🤣.

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Jacque Aye's avatar

THIS!! I can’t stand a person who doubts your own lived reality — like things happen to people every day…why not me? Why question it? Lol

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Victoria Defreece's avatar

Loud chewing makes my skin crawl! I can’t make coherent thoughts if there are strong smells (ex: spearmint is evil). I hate when people only hear the subject of what you’re talking about and guess the rest instead of listening to the actual words you said. It happens to me several times a day and I can tell by the response that they guessed what I said. Ex: I want to start going to the GYM but I can’t afford the membership right now. Response: have you considered getting a membership? ARRGGHH YES! Yes I did! But I’m poor and literally just said I can’t get a membership but all you heard was “Gym” I’m mad just thinking about it ☹️

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Jacque Aye's avatar

Agggghh your example sent chills down my spine because I hate that too omgg lol

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Christine Olukere's avatar

I love The 48 Laws of Power tho 🥹 does that truly make me a ✨psycho✨?

But I hate willful ignorance, dream killers, and clout chasers. I hate the smell of vegan cheese. I hate not winning big in life. I hate taking chances that I haven't already planned out. And I hate French onion soup.

I love walking in the early mornings of fall. I love Colombian pan de queso. I love winning (there is a theme here haha). I love butterflies that fly in reverse and flowers that bloom twice.

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Jacque Aye's avatar

Aww no! You’re not a psycho I’m sorry 😭 my analysis only pertains to men hehe Pan de queso is so gooood omg

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