Finding love as a neurodivergent is difficult. I'm having similar issues trying to figure out what's real and what's limerence. When to flirt and when to be still. Thank you for sharing so openly.
I loved this because I am currently going through this very thing. the push, pull dynamic becomes so exhausting. I am now at the point that I know what he is trying to do. but I still stay around because I like the warmth when it is given to me. just not trying to read too much into it. that in itself is super exhausting. just am not quite sure if I'm ready to let any of the feeling go, you know... I keep saying I'll know when I get exhausted. but will I? anyways, thank you for letting me know I am not alone.
Never apologize for a heavy post! It was much needed! Just got out of something very complicated too and this person was also not very nice to me. It hurts when others can see how someone is treating you, but you yourself don't see it. I'm happy we're both moving on🫶🏾💖
Finding love as a neurodivergent is difficult. I'm having similar issues trying to figure out what's real and what's limerence. When to flirt and when to be still. Thank you for sharing so openly.
I truly have reached my limit when it comes to the confusion. I don't understand why romance and ego are so closely intertwined.
This post was everything. It feels good to have some validation of what I felt with past experiences 😞
The pattern really sucks and I’m sorry you go through it too 😭
This is powerful.
Thanks for reading!
I loved this because I am currently going through this very thing. the push, pull dynamic becomes so exhausting. I am now at the point that I know what he is trying to do. but I still stay around because I like the warmth when it is given to me. just not trying to read too much into it. that in itself is super exhausting. just am not quite sure if I'm ready to let any of the feeling go, you know... I keep saying I'll know when I get exhausted. but will I? anyways, thank you for letting me know I am not alone.
Never apologize for a heavy post! It was much needed! Just got out of something very complicated too and this person was also not very nice to me. It hurts when others can see how someone is treating you, but you yourself don't see it. I'm happy we're both moving on🫶🏾💖
Affection and romance can really be blinding 😪 yes to moving on! 💕💕💕
Sometimes they’re the ones who cross boundaries the most honestly:/